Weddings are filled with beautiful traditions, heartfelt moments, and, let’s face it — a few quirky superstitions. Whether you’re a bride who’s a little superstitious or simply curious about the “why” behind these customs, we’ve gathered some of the most well-known wedding superstitions from around the world. Let’s dive in!
- Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue
This classic rhyme is one of the most popular wedding traditions. Each item is said to bring good luck to the bride:
- Something Old represents continuity and a connection to the past.
- Something New symbolizes optimism for the future.
- Something Borrowed is typically an item from a happily married friend or family member to transfer their good fortune.
- Something Blue stands for fidelity and purity.
Bonus tip: Many brides choose to incorporate a blue garter, jewelry, or even a subtle touch of blue in their bouquet.
- Seeing the Bride Before the Wedding
The superstition of the groom not seeing the bride before the ceremony stems from arranged marriages. It was believed that if the couple saw each other beforehand, they might change their minds. Today, couples often opt for a “first look” for an intimate moment before the festivities, and we promise — no bad luck involved!
- Rain on Your Wedding Day
While Alanis Morissette may call it ironic, many cultures see rain on your wedding day as a symbol of cleansing, renewal, and fertility. So, if the forecast shows a drizzle, embrace it — rain can make for incredibly romantic photos!
- Dropping the Wedding Rings
It’s said that if someone drops the rings during the ceremony, it shakes off evil spirits. Though it might make you wince in the moment, some believe this little mishap brings extra good luck.
- The Bride’s Veil
The tradition of wearing a veil originates from ancient Rome, where brides would cover their faces to protect against evil spirits who might be jealous of their happiness. Today, veils are worn more for fashion than fear, but they certainly add a magical touch to your walk down the aisle.
- Breaking Glass
In some cultures, particularly Jewish weddings, the groom stomps on a glass at the end of the ceremony. The shattered glass symbolizes the fragility of relationships and serves as a reminder to cherish and protect your marriage.
- Carrying the Bride Over the Threshold
This tradition comes from ancient times when people believed evil spirits lurked at doorways. Carrying the bride over the threshold was a way to protect her from any lurking misfortune. While we may no longer fear mischievous spirits, it’s still a fun and romantic gesture.
- Wedding Bells
The sound of bells is believed to ward off evil spirits and bring joy and prosperity. Many couples incorporate bells into their ceremony or reception, and guests sometimes ring small bells to celebrate the couple’s kiss or exit.
- The Lucky Horseshoe
A horseshoe, often gifted to the bride, symbolizes good luck and protection. Just make sure it’s facing upwards like a “U” to catch and hold all the good fortune!
- Throwing Rice or Confetti
Tossing rice at the newlyweds has long symbolized fertility and prosperity. Modern couples often substitute rice with biodegradable confetti, flower petals, or bubbles for a whimsical and eco-friendly touch.
Embrace the Fun — Or Make Your Own Luck!
Whether you’re superstitious or not, these traditions add charm and character to your big day. But remember — your wedding is a reflection of your love story. So, embrace the customs that resonate with you, toss the ones that don’t, and focus on what truly matters: celebrating your forever together.
Happy wedding planning!
Photo by Susannah Katherine Photography
